Blog #9 Guiler and Durndell: Gender Interactions in online discussion groups

I guess first and foremost, I need to clarify that this article focused on educational online discussion groups rather than those used for un-academic subjects.

I was hoping that I would be able to disprove this article and their findings based on my own personal experiences with online discussion boards, but this time, I've fallen into the categories they described. Now whether or not I employ a more female style of response on DB's would take quite a bit of time to determine.

As they mentioned in the article, women have a tendency to use positive language while men use negative more often. So in many of the academic DB's I've looked over I do tend to say "I agree" or in a roundabout way, I agree with what was being said. I have had some professors say that they would prefer that we don't use the phrase I agree because some people may leave their response at just that without justifying their reason for agreement. I rarely try to start confrontations on the internet because many people forget the fact that they are conversing with another human being and the conversation ventures into a bad place. So yes, I'll agree but I will also try to bring up an opposing side politely. There's no way around it.

I have another question in regards to this article. They mentioned that men are more likely to use sarcasm in their responses, but without the lack of tone present in the typed form, how do they know they are being sarcastic in the first place? Emoticons? Typical features of sarcasm? Even if they are following typical features, what if they were being sarcastic?

In comparison to non-academic DB's, I have noticed that girls are more likely to take on a male style of language. There are girls who are willing to start arguments and flaming others. They especially do so when they have a name that doesn't give away their gender until the tell-tale phrase of " As a women, I believe..." or "As a man, I believe...". I think everyone expects women to be more polite online because well, we're women. We are the "gentle" sex. This article shows that we are more polite but I think if they looked at other online discussion boards, they might find different results. Then again, you can never tell who's who on the internet these days.